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Raising Littles

Preparing for a Tonsillectomy – What to Do, Say and Buy for the Surgery

Get Ready!

For our family, a tonsillectomy and adenoidectomy was a really great thing.  Our three year old suffered with sleep apnea and chronic illnesses, caused by huge tonsils and giant adenoids.  Looking back, the procedure and recovery were not that terrible!  I believe our preparation helped. (Are you also wondering what it’s like after a tonsillectomy or adenoidectomy?  Check out our recovery experience here!)

First of all, in the weeks leading up to the procedure, we talked often as a family about the big day – and the big recovery.  We used books to help make this abstract event seem more concrete.  Consequently, it was less scary.  Our favorite book, Good-Bye Tonsils by Craig Hatkoff, was very helpful!  It is about a little girl who goes to the doctor several times, and finally decide to remove her tonsils.  It uses some medical terminology which I appreciate.  Check it out here (and some other awesome prep books!).     

Preparing for the Down Time

Our doctor informed us that the recovery for a tonsillectomy was a solid 14 days–no preschool, limited trips out of the house.  The challenge was “How do we keep her entertained for 14 DAYS without plugging her into movies all day!?”  

The educator in me decided to gear up for a “Snow Day times 14!”  I bought lots of activities to help keep the mind off the pain, and prevent this from becoming a 3 year-old movie binge!

Therefore I stockpiled lots of activities in a super cute “Get Well Bin.”  I gave this to my toddler the night before the tonsillectomy, during our “Good Bye Tonsils” party (just like in the book above).    

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Some ideas: Playdoh, coloring books, markers, colored pencils, crayons, sticker pages, a special DVD, books, and games.  Buy whatever will seem REALLY special to your little patient!  Another addition was a special blanket and a mermaid fabric pillow, because my goal was to take her mind off the pain and put it elsewhere.  

You can learn more about how the activities went in our Day-by-Day Guide to Tonsillectomy Recovery here!

Good Bye Tonsils and Adenoids! Party

The night before the big surgery, we had a family celebration.  (You see, we had two kids having surgery – the 3 year old’s tonsillectomy and adenoidectomy, and the 1 year old’s ear tube surgery) We filled the kitchen with beautiful balloons and flowers.  We had a small cake to share as a family.  During this party, we brought out all of the activities in the “Get Well Bin” and let the kids play with them.  We talked at length about how excited our family was for tomorrow.  We shared what to expect for the hospital in the morning, what they wanted to bring with them, and what fears they had. 

It was a wonderful, positive way to prepare for the next day.    

Preparing our Home Before we Went to the Hospital

We turned one room in our house into a tonsillectomy recovery palace!  We chose to use out TV room because it’s very comfortable and seemed like the best place to start the healing.  

The room had comfy couch, lots of pillows, the Get Well Bin, and all our healing supplies!

As you’ll see in our Tonsillectomy Recovery story, screen time was a strategic tool we used to help get over some of the hardest times after surgery.  In the TV room we placed a small table along with cups, tissues, towels, a gallon of distilled water (for drink and for the humidifier), and other items as needed.  

Two items were a MUST in the TV room!  A trash can and a cool mist humidifier.  We used the trash can a lot – tissues, pudding cups, … having it was a sanity saver. 

Cool Mist Humidifier

One of the best purchases we made preparing for the surgery was a Pure Enrichment MistAire cool mist humidifier.  The humidifier doesn’t heat up the room and make it uncomfortable. Instead, it adds moisture to the air and kept our daughter’s surgery scars  from drying out tremendously, especially while sleeping.  We filled it with plain distilled water and ran it on non-stop medium low throughout the two-week recovery period.  

Also, we’ve since used it dozens of times when anyone in the family gets sick, so it was definitely money well spent!

Planning for Food

Another obstacle we planned for was what to feed our child after the surgery.  Everyone’s heard about popsicles and “all the ice cream you want!” (Those things we tell children to help calm their fears about the surgery.)  However, our kids don’t eat sugar often in our home, so ice cream for every meal wasn’t an option.  Therefore we got creative and started shopping.  Check out our go-to food list here.  

Surgery Day

As a result of all our conversations and the books we read about the Big Day, surgery day was very smooth.  Our early morning appointment made it easy to not feed them after midnight.  To the hospital we brought a special stuffy (Go Dog Go, who is the bravest), a change of clothes (which we didn’t actually use in the end), and also activities to occupy us while waiting.

It was clear that our surgeon, anesthesiologist, nurses and team were well-versed in procedures with kids.  Their professionalism, confidence, and clear communication calmed us, which then allowed us to calm our kiddo.   

Surgery was its own experience!  From start to finish, our visit to the hospital was 6 hours.  We had TWO children have procedures at once!  Both had ear tubes placed, and one had tonsils/adenoids removed.  Thanks to our family’s preparation leading up to the big day, they were calm and relaxed, not scared by the multi-step process.  Be sure to check out our Recovery Story here!

 

Looking Back Now

Update ~ 6 years later

I can’t believe it’s already been six years since both kids had these procedures to help improve their help. 

Without question, these procedures were very helpful for changing the trajectory of our kids’ health in a positive way! I really wrestled with whether or not the surgery was a safe idea. Looking back, we could have even done this sooner! Correcting the sleep apnea and snoring alone has made our child a restful sleeper. At 8 years old, they sleep 10-11 hours per night and are always well rested in the morning. 

If you’re like we were, this surgery was very important for improving health and happiness for our child. Taking some of these simple steps as you wait for the big day will help make the process smoother and positive for your kiddo.  

Feel free to share your questions and experiences in the comments below! I’m so curious to hear your family’s story, before and after surgery.

If you’re scared or have questions, know that you’re not alone! Take care, follow the doctor’s directions, and I promise you’ll be through this in no time.

Take care 🙂

3 Comments

  • Leslie

    Hi There!

    Thank you so much for sharing your baby’s experiences and tips! These are very helpful for me. My 3 year old is having her tonsils and adenoids removed next week. I read that your baby suffered from serious sleep apnea. Did you ever have a sleep study done? I’m considering having one for my daughter before her surgery. She also has a serious case of sleep apnea.

    • Sassy Bluejay

      Hi Leslie!
      I hope surgery went well for your daughter. We didn’t have a sleep study done, and for us – that was a very good thing. In our region, sleep studies were booked out several months. Instead (thank goodness!), our doctor watched one of my videos of her sleeping and decided immediately to forego the sleep study. He said, “I can see now what the results will be and we don’t have 6 months to wait.”

      Each case is different! If sleep studies are easy to get in your area, I always encourage more info! I am glad I was equipped with a video of her obvious sleep apnea for the ENT appointment. Game changer! 🙂 Give us an update if you have a moment, busy Momma!

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